Do you want to talk to women in real life, in the wild, away from the online dating apps? Are you tired of swiping right and getting ghosted after the first text conversation? Well have no fear this post is for you! You can approach women out in the real world and you don’t need some super magic game to bolster your efforts at all. Now I won’t sell you that every women will be dying to got out with you and have your babies, but they will be more open and comfortable to your approach which is great for all parties invovled.
First, you need to make the conversation and the surrounding environmental cues focused on the woman herself. Too many times guys go focused on what they see( I.e. her nice hips, body, her face I want!) You need to focus on what she is doing, what she is wearing, what she is listening to, and what she is thinking while you are talking to her. Women love to talk about themselves to others and they also love ot share what is going on in their lives. For example, youre waiting on you Uber outside the bookstore and you see a young lady reading a X-men comic book while wearing an gold disney world heart necklace. You can start a conversation based on that alone and say something like “Hi, so you are looking to be swept away be a wolverine huh?” She will laugh and then you can ask her about her comic book interest which you both should share and make it natural. The more you focus on her, the more she become curious that you will take care of her needs.
Secondly, you give up too soon! You talk to one woman a day and think youre making progress in life. You need talk to 10 woman a day who don’t know you from Adam! You need to say Hi, talk about famous actor gossip, the weather, sports, or new stores opening up in your area. You are not looking for a date per se but you are looking to build up your conversation muscle. Don’t just talk to the 9/10 pretty lady, you need to talk to that 5/10 lady and learn from the conversation in fact she just might give you some tips on how to talk to her friends properly.
Finally, you need to place yourself in the right enviroment to talk with quality women. Go to things like run clubs, chess clubs, pilates dance classes, book clubs, sports events like the World Cup Fan Zones, and church picnic events. You can talk to women here who share common interests and goals who will love to share with you at all times. They wont have that resting groan face and they will act as wing woman even if they are not sexually attracted to you.
Practice these tips today in real life and in real time and you will see results that match your efforts and may even gain a girlfriend or wife in the process!
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