Stop putting that woman on a pedestal! She is just a woman to you that you don’t know mentally, physically, emotionally, and most importantly spritually. You are just as smart. You are just as valuable to society not only because you render service and utility to the world but because of who you are in this world.
There is nobody else like you in the world and there will never again be another you in this lifetime. Stop selling yourself short when talking to women, remember they are lucky to be in your presence soaking up your words, your style, your image that is dynamic in any setting,
The woman that you choose to talk to should be a reflection of your character and style. You control the interaction when you feel good about yourself. Invest in yourself first before you invest in any woman. Get a great suit, a great haircut, and a great pair of dress shoes to walk into the room to won any room or enviroment.
Many men talk to women as if they have to qualify themselves for her when they should be trying out for a spot on your team. Test and tease her on the first interaction to get her to see you are comfortable in your own skin. You have to practice being assertive in non challenging environments like the coffee shop, the bookstore, the mall, or even at your school.
The more you practice making small talk or flirting with women, the better you will become and see that women just like to have fun too and that they want to be a part of your life! Stop putting them on a pedestal and treat them like an equal looking for the same things you are looking for- a positive and fun connection that does not feel forced or rushed in any way.
So first, you need to value yourself, take yourself out to lunch and take care of your health and grooming always. This will pique the interest of some women looking for a man who takes care of himself for himself! Next, place yourself in all women environments maybe at a gym class like dancing or fit boxing to interact with them even the ones that you dont have a sexual interest in at first.
And finally, have fun teasing women lightly and making fun of yourself if you make a “mistake”. This will show her that you can have fun not taking everything so seriously and also that you can recover if you do and move on with life.
Enjoy making new best friends with women and you never know , you just might end up with a lover unintended!
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