You can find a girlfriend or a wife if you want to but first you have to stop dating women on their terms and providing expensive entertainment that she is going to take away to the next guy that she really loves! You have to find a woman who likes you for you and not how you can entertain her or impress her with your fancy job titles. A woman who truly likes you will build with you, ask introspective questions about your dreams and plans, and actively work for you without directly asking for anything in return.
Think about it- you spend in major US cities upwards of $250 a date or more just to get a side hug or peck on the cheek. You cannot build a great flirty conversation because you either took her to an overpriced movie or to Dave and Buster’s before an expensive steak dinner place. There is no time for meaningful conversation and plus you are just making yourself more out of shape and fat eating those empty calories and carbs!
You dont need a 1st date to know whether or not a woman is down for your life’s mission. You need a 1st interview with her! Remember, a woman is supposed to fit into your plan and agenda and in return she receives the benefits of following and listening to your instruction. Too many men get sucked into the vortex of trying to impress a woman on a 1st date by showing her all of the things, knowledge, and great food spots you know. This is simping behavior- cut it out! Tell her to meet oyu for a walk in a great park, to meet you for a light trivia or chess game, or even for her to critique your outfit you plan on wearing to a business or church banquet function. This will give you an idea of how she thinks about you and how she processes some life decisions.
Secondly, you don’t want to give off the impression that all of your dates are for entertainment! Your “dates” are for screening character, testing her loyalty, and seeing if she is a good fit for being employed by your future household corporation. For example, I was talking to a very beautiful 7 out of 10 looks wise woman who flat out told me after two exchanges that ‘I expect my man to pay for everything and clean everything for me day by day’. Needless to say, I cut her off because she was not on my program and appears to be very lazy in other matters of life. Courtship and marriage is not all fun and games as we all know over 50% of marriages end in divorces and mainly due to either money or affairs.
You need to take yourself on a date first and learn what you like to do for fun and what makes you tick business and professional wise in life. The more you zero in and what makes you as a man stand out from the pack, the less dates you need to take a woman on, in fact, she will probably be willing to come over to your spot and cook for you once she sees how industrious you have been these past few months!
But first, you have to take action and go your own way, do your own thing in life with a woman! You don’t have to hate woman, just have some structure in how you approach them and you will find the love of your life while not even sweating for it!
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